Part 1:
For the first part of this experiment, I found it extremely difficult to not speak. I use my hands all the time when I am talking so that was not so hard for me. My boyfriend and a few of my friends had a very hard time understanding me. I almost felt like I was playing a game of charades. It was very frustrating because in my mind with my hand gestures and the way I was explaining things without talking was making sense to me but to the others in the room they were having a very hard time trying to figure out what I was talking about. I almost felt like I should have just sat in silence and let the rest of the room carry on with their conversations. There were so many times I wanted to join in the conversation but knew that I could not speak with my voice. Everyone in the room started to get a little annoyed with the fact that I could not speak. My boyfriend and friends are the types who like things verbalized and explained to them and I was unable to do so, so it also became frustrating for them.
I think that if this involved two different cultures that met for the first time I think that the ones who would be able to use their voices would be able to communicate better. I think not being able to have a voice and be heard it is harder to communicate especially if you cannot sign or write down what you are trying to say. I think an attitude that a speaking culture would have with a culture that can only use symbolic language would be frustrating and irritating. They may feel like they would not accomplish anything because it could take them longer to understand what the symbolic culture is trying to say. I would say Scientist use symbolic language in our culture today. They do this for some research so others do not know what they are talking about. Let’s say for instance there is an intern at a research center who does not know the symbolic language that other researches do. This intern would have a very hard time understanding the researchers and scientist and I believe that would become very frustrating. I think the intern could almost feel incompetent because he or she has know idea what they are talking about.
Part 2:
For the second half of this experiment, I had a hard time not using my hands. I use hand gestures almost every time I speak. I guess I did not realize how often I use and rely on symbolic language. I ended up having to sit on the couch on top of my hands and not moving so that I would not use any type of symbolic language. I almost felt like this experiment was harder than not using your voice to speak. I do not think that my boyfriend or friends thought anything of me not using any type of symbolic language. I think they more so cared that I could speak and were able to understand what I was saying. What made this experiment the most difficult for me was that I actually had to concentrate to not move my head or give attitude with my body language and to not use my hands. I felt almost trapped not being able to use any type of symbolic language.
I think that the use of “signs” in our language is very important. I almost feel that signs add meaning to verbal language or that signs as in moving the head or hand or giving attitude with your voice makes whatever you are talking about that much more important. I see know that symbolic language or non-speech language is very effective in communicating because for me it gets the point across more than just verbal speaking.
I do think that there are people who have difficulty-reading body language. I know for one my boyfriend does. He takes something I say very different if I have a certain type of body language going on than what I actually meant. Therefore, there is a downside to not being able to read body language. I think if you are the type of person who can read body language then you have quite a bit of an edge over others. Being able to read body language helps to know how to take a comment or a conversation and to know what people are actually meaning and not insinuating what someone means. I think that the type of environment where you wouldn’t want to be able to read or know about body language is when your meeting someone you don’t know. You want to be as nice, personable, and professional as you can be when meeting someone new. You do not want to come off with body language that has people thinking your standoffish and rude.